The I win you lose option is what we are really after (lets not kid ourself)
Whenever I beat you it is good - you beat me it is bad - beating me is not an option, unless it is racing onto a sinking ship
Common knowlege would lead you to believe the key to success is WIN / WIN - but all top leaders know that that is the sucker line, or for pigs lost in the wilderness - you will turn into somebody elses lunch - YOU must always come out on top no matter the fall-out or cost - burn your wife if you have to .. but win..win Rockey win!
Remember, the more you lose, the more I win, the better I look!